Perfectionism
Thomas Curran
“To move toward perfection is to alienate ourselves from ourselves, or worse, to never find ourselves again.”
Perfectionism isn't just a desire to do well; it's a constant, exhausting pressure to pursue unobtainable expectations. It’s the relentless drive to meet impossibly high standards, the self-doubt that creeps in even after you've accomplished something, and the fear of failure that can stop you from taking action. It makes you question your worth, magnify small mistakes, and leaves you feeling never quite “good enough.” Perfectionism can drain the joy from your achievements and turn everyday tasks into anxiety-filled struggles.
Most people experience perfectionistic tendencies at some point in their lives. It’s not about being “too demanding” or “too controlling”; it’s often a response to internalized pressure, stress, or fear of not meeting expectations. For some, perfectionism can mean never being satisfied with their work or achievements; for others, it’s maintaining a facade of success and confidence while constantly battling inner self-criticism.
We’re here to help you untangle the complexities of perfectionism.
In therapy, we create a supportive space where you can unpack these high expectations and the stress that comes with them. We’ll explore where your perfectionism stems from, challenge the negative thought patterns that fuel it, and help you embrace healthier, more realistic standards for yourself. Together, we’ll develop strategies to reduce the grip of perfectionism, allowing you to find satisfaction in your efforts and live with more ease and fulfillment.
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“We need to accept that we won’t always make the right decisions, that we’ll screw up royally sometimes—understanding that failure is not the opposite of success, it’s part of success.”
— Arianna Huffington
Who you are
High-achievers
Perfectionists
Individuals in high-stress jobs
Intercultural Couples
Mixed-Neurotype Couples
Neurodiverse individuals
1.5/2 Generation Immigrants
Racial minorities
LGBTQIA+ folks
What you need
Ease of mind
Content
Calmness
Fulfillment
Joy
Confidence
Safe space
Connection
Customized care
Our approaches
Person-centered
Solution-focused
Emotion-focused
Relational
Culturally-responsive
Strength-based
Existential
Trauma-informed
Gottman
You are ready for a change.
We make the first step forward easy and will accompany you along the journey of finding peace. You don’t have to do this alone.
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