Perfectionism

Thomas Curran

“To move toward perfection is to alienate ourselves from ourselves, or worse, to never find ourselves again.”

Mountains & River

Perfectionism isn't just a desire to do well; it's a constant, exhausting pressure to pursue unobtainable expectations. It’s the relentless drive to meet impossibly high standards, the self-doubt that creeps in even after you've accomplished something, and the fear of failure that can stop you from taking action. It makes you question your worth, magnify small mistakes, and leaves you feeling never quite “good enough.” Perfectionism can drain the joy from your achievements and turn everyday tasks into anxiety-filled struggles.

Most people experience perfectionistic tendencies at some point in their lives. It’s not about being “too demanding” or “too controlling”; it’s often a response to internalized pressure, stress, or fear of not meeting expectations. For some, perfectionism can mean never being satisfied with their work or achievements; for others, it’s maintaining a facade of success and confidence while constantly battling inner self-criticism.

We’re here to help you untangle the complexities of perfectionism.

In therapy, we create a supportive space where you can unpack these high expectations and the stress that comes with them. We’ll explore where your perfectionism stems from, challenge the negative thought patterns that fuel it, and help you embrace healthier, more realistic standards for yourself. Together, we’ll develop strategies to reduce the grip of perfectionism, allowing you to find satisfaction in your efforts and live with more ease and fulfillment.

Trusted Therapists

“We need to accept that we won’t always make the right decisions, that we’ll screw up royally sometimes—understanding that failure is not the opposite of success, it’s part of success.”

— Arianna Huffington

Who you are

High-achievers

Perfectionists

Individuals in high-stress jobs 

Couples 

Neurodiverse individuals

1.5/2 Generation Immigrants

Racial minorities 

LGBTQIA+ folks 

What you need

Ease of mind

Content

Calmness

Fulfillment

Joy

Confidence

Safe space

Connection

Customized care

Our approaches

Person-centered

Solution-focused 

Emotion-focused 

Relational 

Culturally-responsive 

Strength-based 

Existential

Trauma-informed

Gottman

You are ready for a change.

We make the first step forward easy and will accompany you along the journey of finding peace. You don’t have to do this alone.

3 easy steps to get started

Initial Consultation | Intake paperwork | Meet Your Therapist

You deserve to live without the constant pressure to be perfect. Take the first step towards loosening the chains of perfectionism. You are worthy of acceptance, growth, and joy—just as you are. Let us guide you on this path towards balance, self-compassion, and a more peaceful, fulfilling life.

Reach out today to start your journey of healing.

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